How NOT to treat an INFP

I swore I'd never do one of these but what the fuck, here goes:

Don't: be fake with them. INFP personalities are most comfortable when they know people, so that they can get along with others more easily without getting anxious about stepping on toes. If you tend to hide your feelings, don't be surprised if your INFP friend stops talking to you. They just don't know how to read you, and won't try at the risk of pissing you off.

Don't: assume you know them, and don't tell them shit about themselves unless they ask you. Nobody knows an INFP better than they know themself. Chances are whatever amateur psychoanalysis you have to offer them is something they've already figured out about themselves time and time again.

Don't: ignore them if you're mad. Again, INFP personalities are most comfortable when they know people. They can read people well, but don't like to just assume they know what's wrong because they will assume the worst possibilities. Open, honest communication is always essential.

Don't: guilt them into talking to you or going out. INFP are introverts by definition and they will communicate/go out on their terms. As well, they are sensitive to their friends' desires as they are people pleasers, and exploiting this is manipulation that they will see right through. Pushing will make them uncomfortable and they may stop talking to you altogether.

Don't: tell them their goals are unrealistic. INFP are idealists by definition and no matter how unrealistic their goals may seem to even them, a bigger part of them still believes it's possible. Telling them otherwise will not help them "wise up," it will only cause them to sort you into a box labeled "people who have no faith in me."

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movie night masterpost! all links work as of august 11, 2014 (if you want to request/recommend movies here)

10 Things I Hate About You
13 Going on 30
17 Again
21 Jump Street
22 Jump Street
27 Dresses 
(500) Days of Summer
A Cinderella Story
Aquamarine
Bride Wars
Bring It On 
Bring It On Again
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
Clueless
Confessions of a Shopaholic
Confessions of a Teenage Dramaqueen
Crazy, Stupid Love
Disturbia
Donnie Darko
Easy A
Ella Enchanted
Forrest Gump
Freaky Friday
Friends with Benefits 
Ghosts of Girlfriends Past
Girl, Interrupted
Great Gatsby 
Grown Ups
Grown Ups 2 
Jennifer’s Body
John Tucker Must Die
Juno
Just My Luck
Labour Pains
Leap Year
Legally Blonde
Legally Blonde 2
LOL
Lolita
Maid in Manhattan
Mean Girls
Mean Girls 2
Miss Congeniality
Miss Congeniality 2
New Year’s Eve
New York Minute
Pitch Perfect
Princess Diaries
Princess Diaries 2
Project X
Pulp Fiction
Scott Pilgrim vs. the World
She’s the Man
Silver Linings Playbook
Slumdog Millionaire
Stuck in Love
Submarine
Sucker Punch
Switch
The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
The Devil Wears Prada
The Heat
The Hunger Games
The Notebook
The Parent Trap
The Perks of Being a Wallflower
The Proposal
The Tourist
The Virgin Suicides
The Vow
Titanic
V for Vendetta
Warm Bodies 
Water for Elephants
What Happens in Vegas
Yes Man
Final Destination:
Final Destination
Final Destination 2
Final Destination 3
The Final Destination
Final Destination 5
Harry Potter:
Harry Potter And The Philosophers Stone
Harry Potter And The Chamber Of Secrets
Harry Potter And The Prisoner Of Azkaban 
Harry Potter And The Goblet Of Fire 
Harry Potter And The Order Of The Phoenix
Harry Potter And The Half Blood Prince  
Harry Potter And The Deathly Hollows Part 1
Harry Potter And The Deathly Hollows Part 2
Men in Black:
Men in Black I
Men in Black II
Men in Black III
Pirates of the Caribbean:
The Curse of The Black Pearl
Dead Man’s Chest
At World’s End
On Stranger Tides
Star Wars:
Episode I: The Phantom Menace
Episode II: Attack of the Clones
Episode III: Revenge of the Sith
Episode IV: A New Hope
Episode V: The Empire Strikes Back
Episode VI: Return of the Jedi
The Clone Wars
Saw:
Saw
Saw II 
Saw III
Saw IV
Saw V
Saw VI
Saw 3D (7th Movie)
Step Up:
Step Up
Step Up 2
Step Up 3
Step Up Revolution
The Hangover:
The Hangover
The Hangover 2
The Hangover 3
Lord of the Rings/The Hobbit:
The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring
The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King
The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers
The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey
Twilight Saga:
Twilight
New Moon
Eclipse
Breaking Dawn: Part 1
Breaking Dawn: Part 2
Marvel:
The Amazing Spider-man
The Avengers
Captain America
Fantastic Four
Hulk
The Incredible Hulk
Iron Man
Iron Man 2
Iron Man 3
Spider-man 
Spider-man 2
Spider-man 3
Thor
X-Men
X-Men First Class
X-Men Origins: Wolverine 
X-Men The Last Stand
Disney:
Aladdin
Aladdin The Return of Jafar
Aladdin and the King of Thieves
Alice in Wonderland
Alice in Wonderland 2010
The Aristocats
Atlantis the lost Empire
Antlantis Milos Return
Bambi
Bambi II
Beauty and the Beast
Beauty and the Beast: The Enchanted Christmas
Beverly Hills Chihuahua
Beverly Hills Chihuahua 2
Beverly Hills Chihuahua 3
Brave
Brother Bear
Brother Bear 2
A bugs Life
Camp Rock
Camp Rock 2 The Final Jam
Cars
Cars 2
The Cheetah Girls One World
Chicken Little
A Christmas Carol
The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe
The Chronicles of Narnia: Prince Caspian
The Chronicles of Narnia: The Voyage of the Dawn treader
Cinderella
Cinderella II Dreams come True
Cinderella III A Twist in Time
Collage Road Trip
Cow Belles
Dadnapped
Dinosaur
Dumbo
The Emperors New Groove
Enchanted
Escape to Witch Mountain
Fantasia
Fantasia 2000
Finding Nemo
Fox and the Hound
Fox and the Hound 2
Frankenweenie
Frenemies
Frozen
Game Plan
George of the Jungle
A Goofy Movie
An Extremely Goofy Movie
Halloweentown
Halloween town II: Kalabar’s Revenge
Halloweentown High
Hannah Montana Movie
Hercules
High School Musical
High School Musical 2
High School Musical 3
Holes
Home on the Range
The Hunchback of Notre Dame
The Incredibles
Inspector Gadget
Inspector Gadget 2
James and the Giant Peach
John Carter
Jungle Book
Jungle Book 2
Lady and the Tramp
Lady and the Tramp 2
Lilo and Stitch
Lilo and Stitch 2
Lion King
Lion King 2
Lion King 1 1/2
The Little Mermaid
The Little Mermaid 2
Lizzie Mcguire Movie
Marry Poppins
Mars Needs Moms
Mickeys Magical Christmas: Snowed in at the house of mouse
Monsters Inc.
Monsters University
Meet the Robinsons
Mulan
Mulan II
The Muppets
National Treasure
National Treasure: Book of Secrets
Oliver and Company
Oz: The Great and the Powerful
The Pacifier
Peter Pan
Peter Pan 2
Phineas and Ferb: Across the 2nd Dimension
Pinnochio
Pixel Perfect
Pocohantos
Pocahontas 2
Prince of Persia: The Sands of Time
Princess and the Frog
Princess Protection Program
Race to Witch Mountain
Ratatouille
The Reluctant Dragon
The Rescuers
Return to Halloweentown
Robin Hood
The Santa Claus
Santa Claus 2
Santa Claus 3
Sky High
Sleeping Beauty
Snow White and the Seven Dwarves
The Sorcerers Apprentice
Space Buddies
Spooky Buddies
The Suite Life Movie
Sword in the Stone
Tangled
Tangled Ever After
Tarzan
Tarzan 2
Tarzan and Jane
The Tigger Movie
Tinker bell
Tinker bell and the Great Fairy Rescue
Tinker bell and the Lost Treasure
Tinker bell: Secret of the Wings
Toy Story
Toy Story 2
Toy Story 3
Treasure Planet
Tron Legacy
Underdog
Up
WALL-E
Wizards of Waverly Place Movie
Whinnie the Pooh: A Very Merry Christmas
Whinnie The Pooh Movie
Wreck-it-Ralph
Your Friend The Rat
101 Dalmations
101 Dalmations II
102 Dalmations
(its back!!! tumblr deleted this for some reason and a lot of you were having trouble finding it so i decided to repost it!! i also added more movies)

complajn:

movie night masterpost! all links work as of august 11, 2014 (if you want to request/recommend movies here)

Final Destination:

Harry Potter:

Men in Black:

Pirates of the Caribbean:

Star Wars:

Saw:

Step Up:

The Hangover:

Lord of the Rings/The Hobbit:

Twilight Saga:

Marvel:

Disney:

(its back!!! tumblr deleted this for some reason and a lot of you were having trouble finding it so i decided to repost it!! i also added more movies)

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movies rainyday

bioterrors:

when you walk into the auditorium and your athlete son and his athlete best friend are preparing for a play by painting a wooden tree that is a part of the set

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Answering Questions about My Books

fishingboatproceeds:

Hi! For those of you who are now around these parts, there are tumblrs devoted entirely to answering readers’ questions about my books. But they contain spoilers, so only go there if you’ve finished the books! The tumblrs:

Only if You Finished TFIOS

Only if You Finished Alaska

Only if You Finished Paper Towns

Only if You Finished Katherines

Only if You Finished WGWG

If there’s a question I haven’t answered, feel free to submit one!

alt-j:

I see London I see France. Wow. they’re both 486 miles away from eachother. That’s a long way. I have great eyesight.

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"Movies can be anything. They can be escape or they can be confrontation. It’s an incredibly malleable art form, which takes the best of every other art form — writing, music, performance, visual imagery. It’s such a complete art at it’s best. In terms of being on film sets, what I love about it is for anywhere between 20 and 260 days a band of complete strangers will come together and form a family, and will bring something beautiful and ordered out of that chaos." - Daniel Radcliffe, What I Love About Movies Vol. 1

"Movies can be anything. They can be escape or they can be confrontation. It’s an incredibly malleable art form, which takes the best of every other art form — writing, music, performance, visual imagery. It’s such a complete art at it’s best. In terms of being on film sets, what I love about it is for anywhere between 20 and 260 days a band of complete strangers will come together and form a family, and will bring something beautiful and ordered out of that chaos." - Daniel Radcliffe, What I Love About Movies Vol. 1

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